Pull them up or take them off

Boys, boys, boys PULL UP YOUR PANTS!!! Now no one wants to see your ass- lets be honest it looks horrible and it makes your legs look short. I don't care what brand boxers your wearing, I don't need to see how skinny you are- pull them up and belt them where they are suppose to be- trust me you will look so much better. I mean if you are gonna hang them down to your knees to the point where you can't walk just don't wear any pants at all. Find pants that fit from waist to shoe and try those out for a day or two and see the difference. Okay I had to share that because it is a nasty little trend that well should never have become one!

Today I spotted a wonderful outfit at Starbucks while ordering my yummy holiday drink of a white chocolate peppermint mocha- really the drink was just what I needed! Okay, okay back to the sighting of the day... So this was a curvy girl which is great (I ain't no size 2 anymore either) wearing nude leggings and a short white sweater which you could see right on into with a black bra none-the-less. Now really when getting dressed do you look in the mirror and think WOW I look hot??? I am not a fan of leggings with crop tops and nude colored ones are just wrong on everyone; however, if you are wearing them please wear a shirt that is of a decent length or a cute dress with flats or boots. Now on to the white shirt with black bra- just DON"T DO IT! It looks cheap, no one wants to see your breast and if they do please take it to a private room. 
Don't get me wrong here people- I don't care what size you are be it a 0 or a plus 6X- I don't care, what I do care about is how you are representing yourself with your clothing. Please try things on, have a sales person help you, bring a friend, get fitted know that things should fit properly without bulging open. There are great pieces out there for every size you just have to find what you like and what looks the best on your shape. 

So today at the mall in Riverside, Ca I spotted a girl around the age of 18 or 19 and I know what the style is; however, if you are not a street walker please keep your butt covered. This young lady was wearing a black knit very short  dress (or what I would say shirt) that barely covered her booty and around 4 inch black heels and oh wait no pants. Now it wasn't that warm out and the people walking with her were dresses appropriately for their bodies and weather. What really caught my attention was the fact that this young lady could barely walk in her shoes- now if you wanna wear shoes that tall than you should know how to walk and run in those bad boys. I will give the girl some credit and say she could fit in her clothes but that doesn't make what she was wearing right. The outfit would have looked good had she added some tights with a cute print or leggings.  
Girls, girls, girls you can look great with proper fitting items- you do not have to have your body hanging out to get attention! 

Welcome!!!

Hello and welcome to really why are you wearing that, this is our new blog and we are excited to get started!
Today we will be off to the mall and I am sure we will find many outfits that just aren't suitable for the person wearing it.
We will be back shortly to tell you all about our findings!


Just remember people just because others are wearing it doesn't mean it will look good on you. Make sure you try it on and if you have to take someone with you who will give you an honest opinion.


Talk to you soon!