Today it is "really why does your hair look like that!" 
I have no issue with the girls who like to poof up their hair; however, please brush it correctly. I  have seen so many girls with a huge rat nest on their heads and they don't cover it so that the poof looks good. Now take a section of your hair (this will be the front) and move it to the side- then take the section you want to rat up and use a comb and rat the roots of your hair- spray and the take the section moved to the side and cover all of the ratted area and style. I should not be able to see the mess of hair under that section, it should be covered. Your poof will look better and you won't look like a mess- it will be a win win situation!